7th house and DSC. Partnerships in astrology. Lecture 31.

Harmony of the House of Marriage

The Harmony Days of the House of Marriage (合夫妻宫) in Bazi are determined by the Earthly branch (the so-called “animal of the Chinese horoscope”) of the day of your birth. Many people know that they were born in the year of the Monkey, Dragon, Dog or other animal. But the complete Bazi horoscope consists of four “pillars”: year, month, day and hour. The earthly branch of the birthday is called the "Palace of Marriage" in the Bazi (it is also called the House of Marriage, the House of Matrimony, or the House of Family).

Harmony or Fusion of the House of Marriage in Bazi occurs when the Earthly branch of the current day merges with the Earthly branch of the person's birthday. The earthly branches of the day can be found in our Fortune Calendar, and the Bazi card can be constructed using our calculator. Such a day can bring more loves, opportunities for romantic encounters and dates. On this day, people will hear and understand each other better, and it will be easier for them to establish friendships and love relationships.

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Determining the day of the Fusion of the House of Marriage is quite simple - it is the day whose animal merges with the animal of your birthday - in other words, with the Earthly branch of the Day Pillar in your bazi chart. For example, if you were born on the day of the Horse (午), all the days of the Goat (未) merge with your House of Marriage, and are thus Harmony days of the House of Marriage for you. Conversely, if you were born on the day of the Goat (未), all the days of the Horse (午) are days of Harmony of the House of Marriage for you. When you connect your Personal Calendar, you will see all the days of Harmony of the House of Marriage and your other personal stars that influence your luck on that day.

Mergers occur in the following cases:

The merger of the House of Marriage can also come in the ten-year Pillar of Fortune, in a year or in a month. For example, Merger occurs if you were born on the day of the Horse and the Pillar of Luck (year, month) of the Goat arrived. Or you were born on the day of the Tiger and the Year of the Pig has come.

If the Merger comes for a long time, a period of luck of 10 years, this often brings good opportunities in your personal life, you can fall in love, find a suitable partner or get married. If you are single, Merging with the House of Marriage could be your chance to find your soulmate. After all, Merger means contact and harmony, and if Merger comes to a single person during a 10-year period of luck, this means that in these 10 years his House of Marriage will be in greater harmony, and he himself will be more active in finding a partner.

But the Confluence of the House of Matrimony can negatively affect those in a relationship as it signifies romance and falling in love. The romantic mood can be directed both at an existing partner and at a new object of desire. A merger can bring a third person into family life, and then the further development of the relationship will depend on how much the partners value the connection that exists between them. That is, a Merger in a 10-year period, in a month or a year, can mean both more harmony and understanding in existing relationships, and the emergence of new ones.

If the Merger came for a short period (and such days come to each of us every 12 days), this is unlikely to lead to a new hobby, because tomorrow another day will come, and our mood will change. It is better to use this day consciously, directing the energy of the Merger to improve and harmonize existing relationships.

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Thus, the Day of Harmony of the House of Marriage is a good day for personal relationships, it gives single people more opportunities for romantic meetings and dates, such days are also very suitable for weddings. For married people, such days provide good opportunities for heart-to-heart conversations, strengthening partnerships and family matters.

House of Marriage Harmony Day is also favorable for “external” activities such as making new contacts, persuading others, making speeches and improving the interaction of the parties, since on such a day we are more attractive to others.

Problem pillars in Ba Zi for personal life, marriage

The day is especially important when we analyze the character, behavior of a person and his marriage luck. You can write a separate large article about each pillar (the combination of the Heavenly Stem and the Earthly Branch). This is a very deep layer of information. Character, element Nayin, influence of 10 deities in the day, influence of symbolic stars, etc. But today we’ll only talk about marriage and personal life.

There are a series of pillars of the day that bring problems in your personal life. From them we can immediately say that this topic will not be easy. This is especially true for women. Almost 80% of women who write on the forum about difficulties in their personal lives have these pillars. I'm no longer surprised. You make another card and again the same combinations.

If other unfavorable signs in your personal life are added to the chart, the situation with these pillars becomes especially difficult. There may be either complicated divorces or toxic relationships. Or loneliness, difficulties in finding a partner, even celibacy.

The whole problem is that these pillars, first of all, greatly spoil a woman’s character. Therefore, it is very important not to panic if you see such a birthday pillar, but to use the information correctly. Mostly we are talking about distortions in behavior. Either the woman is too tough, constantly criticizes the man, becomes hysterical, and in the end the man leaves. Or there is a problem with expressing emotions. Or immoral behavior, as the Chinese like to say. That is, a woman begins to lead a riotous lifestyle, flirt, and cheat. Because of this, relationships deteriorate.

Therefore, the first thing people with these pillars need to do is to honestly look at themselves in the mirror and evaluate their character and behavior. You must admit that in most cases you create problems in relationships. And there is no one to blame here. You need a lot of work on yourself, self-control, flexibility, gentleness and the ability to negotiate.

Someone will have many illusions, life with rose-colored glasses. Hence the constant mistakes in choosing a partner, having your head in the clouds and searching for fairy-tale romance.

The whole map will tell you the details. It is necessary to analyze the husband’s element in the horoscope, the relationship of the palaces, the balance of elements, etc.

If the other indicators of the card are not so unfavorable, then the “difficult” pillar of the day will still bring problems in your personal life and spoil your character. But a woman will be able to create a relationship and get married. Although the quality of marriage will suffer due to behavior.

The special significance of home in love compatibility

By analyzing the 7th house in a horoscope, you can determine your ideal partner and better understand with which people you will most likely be able to build harmonious relationships or create a strong alliance.

For example, the Descendant (cusp of the seventh house) will tell you what qualities and character traits the native values ​​most in people, what he looks for in others, and what he wants his ideal romantic partner to be, based on what he projects onto others. This is where the relationship between the 1st and 7th houses and their cusps (Ascendant and Descendant) manifests itself.

Moreover, knowing only your Ascendant, you can accurately determine the Descendant, that is, the image of your ideal soulmate. As a rule, to do this you just need to count 7 zodiac signs from your Ascendant. For example, if the Ascendant is in Virgo, then the Descendant is in Pisces, if the Ascendant is in Scorpio, then the Descendant is in Taurus, then similarly.

The Descendant (cusp of the seventh house) is a collective image of an ideal partner. It is formed based on the behavior and temperament of the native, which is characterized by the Ascendant (cusp of the first house).

Roughly speaking, a powerful and tough person is unlikely to be able to live happily ever after with an equally authoritarian person, since he needs a softer and more compliant partner. And a compassionate and weak-willed person is unlikely to be happy next to someone like him, since he needs a stronger and stronger-willed partner.

Also, by analyzing the seventh house, you can calculate:

• the native's attitude towards long-term romantic relationships;
• predisposition to polygamy or monogamy;
• number of marriages (usually up to three);
• under what circumstances can a person meet his love.

In any case, the 7th house is of particular importance when calculating and analyzing compatibility. Moreover, it is necessary to take into account several factors at once: which planets are included in it (and whether there are planets in it at all). If there are planets in it, what aspects do they form (are they affected). And in what zodiac sign is the 7th house located? It is important that when analyzing compatibility in the seventh house, it is necessary to take into account two natal charts (of each partner) and their characteristics.

Have any of the readers contacted a professional astrologer to calculate compatibility with a loved one?

Ruler of marriage in the natal chart

Which planet will rule marriage? Of course, the one that is related to houses important for personal life: the seventh, first, fourth, tenth

What will the marriage manager tell you about? It will help determine:

• time of marriage: will the marriage be early or can this event be expected after the activation of Saturn, i.e. after 30 years;
• whether there is a threat of divorce, separation from a partner for a variety of reasons, or whether this will not happen. Astrologers give this conclusion after considering the aspects of the ruler of the seventh house: is he afflicted by malefic planets and what will this lead to;
• whether the card holder is inclined to have multiple relationships, or whether he will never formalize a marriage.

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What is the 7th house responsible for in the birth chart?

In natal astrology there are 3 types of houses: angular, subsequent and cadent. Corner ones are the most important of them. And the seventh house is one of these.

Brief astrological characteristics of the 7th house:

• located in the upper hemisphere opposite the first house;
• angular (clearly manifested and significantly affects fate);
• ruler - Venus, corresponding zodiac sign - Libra;
• responsible for partnerships, marriage, business relationships, the nature of romantic relationships and external communication.

The seventh house shows the nature of all the agreements that the native builds, how others react to him and what reputation he enjoys in society.

The 7th house is a reflection of a person and how people around him perceive him. And not only close ones, but in general everyone who communicates with the native in any way.

In natal astrology, house 7 is responsible for:

• marriage;
• friendship;
• society;
• business;
• sex;
• labor Relations;
• personal qualities that the native looks for in people and values ​​most of all (the image of an ideal life partner);
• the nature of partnerships (any kind at all, including business ones);
• profession;
• ability to adapt or solve problems.

That is why the seventh house is called the house of marriage, partnership or communication - it is responsible for all long-term social interactions.

In general, the 7th house in astrology is directly related to all external communication. His analysis will show how the native behaves in society, how he prefers to build long-term relationships (romantic and business).

Is it possible to look at love and relationships in the 7th house?

By analyzing the 7th house, you can create a psychological portrait of your ideal soulmate. That is, to understand what kind of person the native sees his future with, and with whom, due to his personal characteristics, it will be easiest for him to build a harmonious romantic or business relationship.

Important: the 7th house, although important, is active for periods - only when a person is forced to “get involved” in public life and actively interact with others, regularly meet someone and build long-term relationships.

This is why the seventh house usually does not show activity in childhood and early adolescence. It becomes active when a person enters adulthood and leads an active social life, works, communicates a lot and maintains a balance in communication, and creates long-term relationships (work or romantic).